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The word “blabber mouth” is the definition of a person who just cant shut up. He loves to spill secrets of others. For me, it is the word that I really dont want to be associated with. It stands for me a word that would be equal to an unworthy friend. Because the whole point of knowing a secret is the trust that a person gives you. It is one of the perks of being close to a friend. It also shows that “you are in” in that crowd. It is the biggest show of trust that person could ever give you. And being a blabber mouth does destroy that trust in you. It just shows that you just dont value that trust or better yet, you dont deserve that trust. And no matter how good your other characteristics are as a friend, it would just render useless if you are a blabber mouth.
During my second year in high school, there was this one time when my friend told the 3 of us her secret. It was a really awkward secret and awkward knowing it but despite that fact we all still got along. And then, one she just found out that her secret has been spread to the whole class. She was really shocked, and being one of the people who knew her secret I was also a suspect for her. I was really sad because I didnt tell anyone the secret, but she did call me a blabber mouth-and it hurts so bad. Because the fact that it was a branding name that would destroy your reputation and your friendship. But in the end she found out that it was another girl who told her secret to everyone. The bottomline is that I dont want to be associated with this word because from experience I know how much it hurts and how much damage that word carries with it.
But fortunately, you can avoid being a blabber mouth in three easy steps. First, dish out a secret of your own to your friend, so that you’ll both be inclined to keep quiet if you dont want your secret to be broadcasted. Second, in on the right ear and out on the left. That way you wouldnt be inclined to spill the secret, and you’ll just have to be reminded over and over. Its because there are some things better left unsaid or forgotten. It works better than spilling it to everyone. Third, examine yourself- ask yourself, “can I keep this secret?” before asking to be told about it. But the bottom line is know when to shut up. that is the best solution in keeping a secret.
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A blabber mouth is a person who just can’t shut up. it is the opposite of being trustworthy. being a blabber mouth means you dont deserve the trust your friends have in you.
A friend told 3 of them a secret once and it leaked out. the friend was shocked and called catsy a blabber mouth. in the end, it was another friend who leaked the secret, but catsy was still hurt. She does not want to be a blabber mouth because it hurts being called that and it damages the person a lot.
There are 3 easy steps to avoid being called a blabber mouth. One, exchange secrets so that you’re compelled not it leak out the person’s secret else that person will leak out your secret as well. Two, just forget completely what that secret is, so that you wont be inclined to leak the secret. third, examen yourself and ask “can I keep this secret?” before listening to the secret. bottomline, know when to shut up and say nothing.
This entry draws a lot from personal experience. but nonetheless, it is well-organized. The entry seems to have been planned out before being written down. The topic is interesting as it shows strained relationships and the element of trust in a friendship from a very feminine experience.